Today I had the opportunity to work from home as CA’s school was closed due to the snow cleanup. CA asked me during the day to play with him outside in the snow. So we spent some time outside building a fort in the snow, having a snowball fight and then coming inside to warm up with some hot chocolate. He was so happy to have this time with his Dad and I enjoyed just being able to act like a kid. And this wasn’t anything that needed a lot of planning or money to do. No it was the simple things which brought both of us tremendous joy today.
When I look back at my childhood, some of the best times I remember with my Dad is when he would take me fishing. I’m not talking about the times we went fishing on a charter boat, even though those were a lot of fun. I’m talking about the times we went fishing right on the beach or off a bridge there in my hometown of Charleston, SC. We would get up early in the morning to catch the high tide coming in. I would be excited and ready to spend the time fishing with my Dad. Those memories are still with me some 30-35 years later.
In the grind of our busy lives and the pursuit of material things we are made to believe are important we are missing out on the simple things. Whether it’s with our spouses, our children, our family or our friends what memories have we passed up because we didn’t take the time to enjoy the simple things. This focus on the simple things is something I’ve been a lot more conscious of as I’ve matured not only in age but in my relationship with Christ.
I have a great appreciation and respect for how fragile our lives truly are. As it says in Psalms 90:12 (NLT), “Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom.” Our time on this earth is limited and we don’t get a second chance at this life. Taking the time to value each moment is something we should all try to do. As it is in these small moments when we will make those lasting memories.
It would have been easy for me to tell CA today that I couldn’t go outside with him because I was busy with work. I could have pushed it back to another day when my schedule would have allowed it. I am so glad I didn’t do that. There have been many times in my life when I allowed the schedule to dictate whether or not I enjoyed moments like these. How many of you are allowing your schedules to keep you from these valuable simple moments and making great memories?
The simple things in life are right there in front of you. The quiet time soaking in the beauty of nature with someone you love, the games you play with your kids, or that lunch date to catch up with an old friend. These are all opportunities for you to give of yourself and your time to make lasting memories. So don’t let these opportunities pass you by. Starting today, be conscious of these opportunities and make a vow to not let your busy schedule get in the way of you truly enjoying the simple things in life.
Truth in Love! ~ Chuck